In a jar with a tight fitting lid, mix all the salad dressing ingredients, except the cole slaw mix, until well blended. Taste and adjust salt and sweetness to taste.
in a large bowl, add the coleslaw mix and pour the dressing over the coleslaw mix. Toss to coat well. Set aside to marinate for at least 15 minutes before serving.
Sprinkle with sesame seeds and a drizzle of sesame oil just before serving.